There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
LET THEM GO!
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of goodbye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in goodbye.
It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
LET THEM GO!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to...LET THEM GO!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains...LET THEM GO!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...LET THEM GO!
If someone has angered you...LET THEM GO!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge...LET THEM GO!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction...LET THEM GO!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents...LET THEM GO!
If you have a bad attitude...LET THEM GO!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...LET THEM GO!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....... LET THEM GO!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves...LET THEM GO!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed...LET THEM GO!
Get Right or Get Left, think about it, and then...LET THEM GO
Monday, February 2, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
random feelings
I just got out of the gym.. I have been hitting it hard for the past 2 weeks! Im so proud of myself =)
Anyway... it has been a rough and hard week for me.. but im getting better one step at a time, u know?
I have been at my own rehabilitation.. and it is extremely hard!! To undergo an addiction. (lol)
Not really funny.. but anyway... The gym.. (my "so called" boyfriend) never do me dirty.. ever!! He is always doing me right... in every ways, mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. (specially this week) how many times was I about to go back to some of my addictions and I decided to continue my rehabilitation process.. im sure who ever reads this (if any) wouldn't know what I am talking about... unless u are my super close friend that I talk to a lot! (maybe next blog it will be about the confessions of my addiction) Blah... Ill be able to go thru this.. just the beginning of it is probably the most difficult stage!
Anyway.. I hate what I am going through right now... But u know.. sometimes everything happens for a reason so that we can learn to let go u know?
And sometimes the key to happiness is getting rid of the things you don't need. And only you hold the key to control how to simply let it go.
I have never been alone ever! I have always been with someone.. I don't know how it feels to be on my own.. i truly don't. And I don't think I would ever admit this but here goes... I don't think I would ever want to be alone (lol).. again its not funny but hey... unfortunately its what I need.
So re-evaluating myself... I guess I look for others to complete me... When I really shouldnt look too far coz its so close... so close that I just have to just look within myself to complete me.
Wow! haha Look how far the woman that I have become! =) And again I still say... Im a young woman who still has alot to learn in life.
Learning to love me, appreciate the little that I have.. and the lot. The little that we get does not satisfy us?? and A LOT complicates us?? When we get everything... its does not make us happy... but its really about your perception of things.. and not about what you have. If that makes any sense?
Anyway.. during my rehab... I sat down going crazy!!! I am unable to call or talk to anyone... I almost left!! But no one is available to come rescue me! I feel so ALONE! And Lonely... SAD... No one, absolutely NO ONE is there for me! And thats when I realized to find happiness in me =)
I talked to myself... like a crazy person.. and remembered when I started.. how far I have become... its awesome! I dont realize it because I dont take time to really sit back and observe and appreciate. So many unnecessary distractions... I really just had to learn to let go. No one is perfect.. and dont be too hard on yourself! There is only one you! Take care of you!
You cannot spend so much time trying to be right!!! Its human nature... you are only human! I am connecting with myself.. healing myself... I guess is the point of all these. Right now when I am alone... and im feeling really lonely... Im never really lonely! The quietness is such an amazing feeling.. to spend time to yourself... I can do whatever I want.... cry, laugh, dance, sing, and just reach deep down.. that inner peace.
Its just me... myself... and I...
to be continued...
Tin
Anyway... it has been a rough and hard week for me.. but im getting better one step at a time, u know?
I have been at my own rehabilitation.. and it is extremely hard!! To undergo an addiction. (lol)
Not really funny.. but anyway... The gym.. (my "so called" boyfriend) never do me dirty.. ever!! He is always doing me right... in every ways, mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. (specially this week) how many times was I about to go back to some of my addictions and I decided to continue my rehabilitation process.. im sure who ever reads this (if any) wouldn't know what I am talking about... unless u are my super close friend that I talk to a lot! (maybe next blog it will be about the confessions of my addiction) Blah... Ill be able to go thru this.. just the beginning of it is probably the most difficult stage!
Anyway.. I hate what I am going through right now... But u know.. sometimes everything happens for a reason so that we can learn to let go u know?
And sometimes the key to happiness is getting rid of the things you don't need. And only you hold the key to control how to simply let it go.
I have never been alone ever! I have always been with someone.. I don't know how it feels to be on my own.. i truly don't. And I don't think I would ever admit this but here goes... I don't think I would ever want to be alone (lol).. again its not funny but hey... unfortunately its what I need.
So re-evaluating myself... I guess I look for others to complete me... When I really shouldnt look too far coz its so close... so close that I just have to just look within myself to complete me.
Wow! haha Look how far the woman that I have become! =) And again I still say... Im a young woman who still has alot to learn in life.
Learning to love me, appreciate the little that I have.. and the lot. The little that we get does not satisfy us?? and A LOT complicates us?? When we get everything... its does not make us happy... but its really about your perception of things.. and not about what you have. If that makes any sense?
Anyway.. during my rehab... I sat down going crazy!!! I am unable to call or talk to anyone... I almost left!! But no one is available to come rescue me! I feel so ALONE! And Lonely... SAD... No one, absolutely NO ONE is there for me! And thats when I realized to find happiness in me =)
I talked to myself... like a crazy person.. and remembered when I started.. how far I have become... its awesome! I dont realize it because I dont take time to really sit back and observe and appreciate. So many unnecessary distractions... I really just had to learn to let go. No one is perfect.. and dont be too hard on yourself! There is only one you! Take care of you!
You cannot spend so much time trying to be right!!! Its human nature... you are only human! I am connecting with myself.. healing myself... I guess is the point of all these. Right now when I am alone... and im feeling really lonely... Im never really lonely! The quietness is such an amazing feeling.. to spend time to yourself... I can do whatever I want.... cry, laugh, dance, sing, and just reach deep down.. that inner peace.
Its just me... myself... and I...
to be continued...
Tin
Monday, December 15, 2008
Empty & Confused
Its so confusing how life is.. But i know we all have to go through rough times in order to be stronger and learn wisdom.
Sometimes I wish everything went perfect for me. But its not always the case.
I often wonder if I chose to take the bad path that is making me feel the way I do.
But I still believe that a step in the wrong direction is better than staying in the same spot all ur life, because then you cannot correct ur mistakes and learn from it to better yourself.
Love? How does one know when you are in love? How do you know if you love someone? Or if you still Love someone and the difference between being in love with someone.
If you have been with a person for the longest and all of the sudden things just started falling out of its place. Are you to blame yourself?
Fear? How do you fight it? How do u break away from the comfort zone that has always surrounded you and probably learn to fight your biggest enemy in life?
Forgive? How do u really forgive someone? That comes from within... how do u forgive the things that shattered your broken emotions? How do you forgive yourself?
Let go? It is so easy to tell people to let go.. but how do you let go to really end and forget the emotions that went along with it?
Trust? after all the pain and suffering.. how do you trust again... and How do you trust yourself?
I guess before we get from this end of the room to the door we need to take a step... there is no way we r getting out of this rooming without making these steps...
I hate feeling this way but its a part of growing up.. i guess?
Sometimes I wish everything went perfect for me. But its not always the case.
I often wonder if I chose to take the bad path that is making me feel the way I do.
But I still believe that a step in the wrong direction is better than staying in the same spot all ur life, because then you cannot correct ur mistakes and learn from it to better yourself.
Love? How does one know when you are in love? How do you know if you love someone? Or if you still Love someone and the difference between being in love with someone.
If you have been with a person for the longest and all of the sudden things just started falling out of its place. Are you to blame yourself?
Fear? How do you fight it? How do u break away from the comfort zone that has always surrounded you and probably learn to fight your biggest enemy in life?
Forgive? How do u really forgive someone? That comes from within... how do u forgive the things that shattered your broken emotions? How do you forgive yourself?
Let go? It is so easy to tell people to let go.. but how do you let go to really end and forget the emotions that went along with it?
Trust? after all the pain and suffering.. how do you trust again... and How do you trust yourself?
I guess before we get from this end of the room to the door we need to take a step... there is no way we r getting out of this rooming without making these steps...
I hate feeling this way but its a part of growing up.. i guess?
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
lol.. so I said to be continued like 3 months ago... lame I know...
unlike ashley here... updates her damn blogspot so damn much.. even does it before she eats breakfast in the morning! haha .. on blast i know!
So here goes... I am finally updating this...
My name is tin, and if I was given a chance to have my own reality show... boy oh boy.. u would be glued to ur tv's lol.
The picture above is moi =) The anorexic brats dolls.. =)
I just started back at my job today... I had a vacation and got to see my future reality show co stars.. the glam squad.
Pretty interesting things that had happened... right girls?? That's Hollywood for you I guess...
funny how u meet ppl in Hollywood and they tell you they hate Hollywood ppl, when they fit the perfect description of what they have expressed to dislike.
To me its whatever now.. if you think Im such an LA girl... you haven't seen anything yet! hahah
Anyway... I have come across the most interesting individuals for these past couple of months! Even felt like Bonnie with cops all around the place!! Who would have thought I would be put in such situations... crazy...
I wish I could just mention it all in direct here.. but you know... kinda creepy.
Once upon a time I used to blog so much... this lame individual had stolen all my pics and copied and pasted all my posts and posted it all over the internet... sheeesh.. I didn't know my life was that interesting.
Im really more about randomness and indecisiveness living in the most dramatic life... haha..
I cant help it... excitement just keeps on chasing me i guess.... Hmmm so this 2nd posts is starting to sound very vain.... and ur wrong! Im just thinking and typing thoughts to myself, I guess...
So Anyway I am over typing already.. I am the most laziest person ever... So here are some pictures from this week end... @ the basketball game.. Always the most fun with the squad
Friday, September 12, 2008
my first blog
I thought i would start this... and randomly post my thoughts that I keep and hold on to.
Today is not the best for me.. actually... lately it has not been the best for me...
Like i said before...
Just because i SMILE it doesn't mean I am Happy... because all it takes is one smile to hide a million tears ='(
to be continued...
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